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Stage 1: Constant Arguments? |
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Stage 3: I am done, its over! |
Stage 2: Betrayal?
What is EC3: Emotionally Connected Couples Coaching
EC3 was created in response to the three most common marital issues:
Stupid fights
Betrayals (infidelity)
Feeling like you are roommates.
Babies cry when desperate to communicate their needs of love, food, sleep, comfort {aka: diaper change}.
Adults pick stupid fights for attention. We always hear about the ‘dishes in the sink’, but the REAL problem is never the dishes.
In the first 30 minutes of the session, we listen to concerns and ask questions to decipher what each needs to feel love. We teach each partner how to make requests in the language their partner feels most loved. Couples then will practice recreating the feeling of connection before having a 10-minute conversation. Couples also learn how to take a "timeout" when things get too heated. It is our intention to help find and practice excellent communication skills in our sessions so that you and your partner can get back to living in a happy, fulfilling, caring based marriage!
A Relationship Coach is not a Marriage Therapist . . .
Let’s begin by stating what a coach is not. A coach does not give advice, consult, mentor or tell you what to do. Nor is a coach a therapist. A coach encourages and empowers you to find the answers within. By assessing your current situation, your coach will help you move step by step toward building the relationship that you want. You will learn how to shift your thinking to allow yourself to see new opportunities for you to learn, grow, improve and make changes.
By asking directed questions, a coach will encourage your exploration of all possibilities. By using coaching techniques and processes you will learn how to determine your best path toward a more balanced and fulfilling relationship.
The Biggest Issues we see in our practice are:
1. First baby
2. The 2nd or 3rd child pushing a couple to the breaking point
3. A Mother-in-law influencing one partner
4. You do not feel like a “Priority” to your spouse
5. Career Stress, changing job or added responsibilities
2. The 2nd or 3rd child pushing a couple to the breaking point
3. A Mother-in-law influencing one partner
4. You do not feel like a “Priority” to your spouse
5. Career Stress, changing job or added responsibilities
Babies cry when their needs are unmet because they cannot express themselves verbally. “Mother, may I please have a warm bottle of milk?” Adults have needs, and if they are not aware of what they are and how to ask for them, they do not cry. They pick an argument. We learn at a very early age that being “bad” is the fastest way to get attention because being “good” goes unnoticed and you feel taken for granted.
Not feeling loved shows up as complaints:
You didn’t do the dishes
You never want to have sex
You spend too much time with your hobbies
You never take me out for a date
You never get my flowers
What are we doing this weekend?
These arguments are “bids” for attention. “Hey, pay attention to me, I need to feel loved, like a priority, important, and valued by YOU!” If you can relate to any of these symptoms, call now to learn how we can be of help.
You never want to have sex
You spend too much time with your hobbies
You never take me out for a date
You never get my flowers
What are we doing this weekend?
These arguments are “bids” for attention. “Hey, pay attention to me, I need to feel loved, like a priority, important, and valued by YOU!” If you can relate to any of these symptoms, call now to learn how we can be of help.
